Hello, my lovelies. Things have been super busy here in the home of the Frugal Femme. I’ve neglected you terribly, and I do intend to make amends just as soon as I can! While all of the things going on in my little corner of the world are very positive and exciting developments, I want to work harder to make sure that this blog starts getting the attention that it, and YOU, deserve.

For starters - my teaser from so long ago has been much researched, and while the results may not be what any of us expected, they’re tried and true. NO after-shave care product I’ve used has been able to counteract the results of a hurried or careless job of shaving. I know that some will soothe pain, others will alleviate redness, but the only honest to goodness way to cure the problem of shaving irritation starts when you turn on the water.

First, ALWAYS make sure you have the time to really dedicate to handling this delicate process properly. Any rushed shave job (particularly in the bikini area) is going to result in irritation. You want to use warm or hot water, and allow your skin to soak, not just get wet. If you’re not taking a shower or bath, use a wet washcloth and hold it against the area to be shaved until the skin is completely hydrated.

Second, EXFOLIATE. The top layer of your skin will come off with your blade, and will keep you that much further away from the closest shave possible. You don’t need to use a harsh or abrasive exfoliant; sugar scrubs are ideal, as they also cover the next important aspect of the perfect shave.

Moisturize. Use a sugar or salt scrub that contains essential oils that will soften the coarse and thick hairs, making them easier for your blade to *cut* rather than to break or pull. You can also use a small amount of hair conditioner or body cream; don’t overdo it though, because you want to leave it on during your shave.

Use a new razor. A sharp blade will ensure that the hair is *cut* and not pulled from below the skin, which is what causes those red bumps in most cases, and usually leads to painful ingrown hairs. A sharp razor also means only one or two passes across each bit of skin will do the job; repeated scraping of an area will also lead to irritation.

You can absolutely use an after-shave gel, lotion, or other product, but these tips will alleviate the need for one. Just make sure that you’re avoiding alcohol or other drying agents, which will pull your skin tighter and bring the hair you’ve just cut closer to the surface.

For those who live in an area that has an adult store of some kind, check out Coochy Shave Cream - I’ve heard nothing but rave reviews from colleagues who have used it, and I’ve got some on the way so I can give you a first hand account soon.

I hope this has proven to be helpful, and I’ll see you all again soon - I’ve got a trip to Ulta planned for tomorrow or Friday, and now I’m off to make my shopping list! Anything in particular you’d like me to keep an eye out for while I’m there? Drop a line and let me know!

Hugs ‘n’ Smooches,

~FF